Being You Counseling
Accepting New Clients
Being You is Enough.
About Insurance
Being You Counseling is currently contracted with:
- Aetna
- Blue Cross Blue Shield
- Cigna / Evernorth
- United Healthcare
- UMR
- Optum Health Care
- Medicare (Traditional) Part B
- Self-Pay
We do not work with any EAP programs, TennCare and we do not participate with Medicare Advantage Plans.
It is the patient's responsibility to collect reimbursements or to assure that payments are sent to us from any HSA accounts or supplemental policies. We are also happy to supply you with the necessary documents to submit for reimbursement from your HSA or other accounts.
Young Adults
Adults are balancing a lot of stressors. Whether you are a new adult navigating the art of "adulting" for the first time or a rather experienced adult who still feels like adulting is an overwhelming experience, counseling provides a safe place to unpack and process. Just because you are an adult doesn't mean that you have it all together. There's a lot that we can process together.
Older Adults & Seniors
Just like every stage of life, getting older has both beauty and challenges. Aging can come with new limitations, pain, illnesses or ailments and losses that can lead to difficult emotions, such as frustration, anger, sadness and loneliness. Therapy offers tools to help you continue or to regain your quality of life while living alongside your changing life challenges.
Hi! I’m Ailie
I am an LCSW licensed in the State of Tennessee. I hold certifications in both EMDR and ART therapy and have specialized in treatment for trauma. In 2015 I began working in the Psychiatric Hospital of Vanderbilt University Medical Center. My private practice with Being You Counseling began in February of 2022.
Services
Depression
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Sadness is something each of us experiences throughout our lives. In some cases this sadness can become so pervasive that it starts to impact the ways in which we engage in our lives.
Depression can happen for a variety of reasons including our life experiences and even genetic vulnerabilities. Understanding what underlies depression is the starting point for therapy. From there we work toward skills to manage depression.
Anxiety
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Anxiety is a normal response to uncertain experiences. For some people anxiety can impact everyday life in debilitating ways. From flashes of panic response to excessive worry or fears, anxiety can spiral, leaving people unable to manage daily routines. Excessive anxiety can be out of proportion to any actual danger and the feeling can last for a long time.
Together we will work toward skills to manage anxiety.
Stress
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We all know what stress feels like. To some extent everyone knows that chronic stress can create a watershed of physical and psychological harm. While it may not be practical or possible to eliminate all sources of stress, therapy sessions will focus on finding ways to manage stress and find outlets for relieving stress in healthier ways.
Grief
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The pain of loss is very real. Deaths of those you love can impact your entire being – emotional, spiritual and physical. Experiencing grief can also come from other losses such as divorce, a break up, loss of a job, loss of a home, or other life changing events. In therapy, you will have a safe space to share and process your grief and learn how to begin again.
Anger Management
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Everyone gets angry sometimes and feeling anger is okay. The way that we handle our anger and express it is what counts. For some of us, anger leaves us feeling out of control. In therapy we learn how to express and manage our anger in a healthy way.
Relationships
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As human beings, we are hardwired for connection. Navigating and forming healthy relationships is a skill needed at all ages. Relationships are in every area of our lives. We have family, romantic, work, friends and others. Together we can navigate a positive way to work toward healthy relationships with those you love and/or those with whom you interact daily.
There are times when relationships will end. These breakups are typically filled with a multitude of challenging emotions. Together we can find ways forward and navigate this new space.
Coping Skills
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Coping skills are tools we learn and develop that get us through the tough emotions and stressors in our lives. Coping skills are the way that you take care of yourself. Learning different skills to help you cope means that you have more tools in your emotional toolbox to provide self-care and comfort as you process these hard experiences.
Chronic Illness
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A happy and productive life can include a chronic illness. The mind – body – spirit connection is powerful. A diagnosis of a chronic illness or a physical injury resulting in a need for rehabilitation and long bouts of physical therapy can significantly impact our mental well-being.
Your brain is powerful, and sometimes when your brain is struggling it can worsen or even create physical symptoms. Coping with chronic illness can be challenging and sometimes draining. Together we can help your brain and body work as a team.
Life Changes
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Life transitions can include getting married, having a baby, moving to a new home, starting a new job, death of a loved one, a divorce, a break up, job loss. While every life transition can include elements of joy, they can also include elements of grief and loss.
Transitions are hard. Change is hard. The emotions you experience may be all over the place and all of your emotions are okay and valid. We will explore your responses and how to navigate the changes together.
Harmful Behavior
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When we are in distress, we search for ways to cope. Some of us turn to self-harm as a way to cope. Together we will work to develop healthier and safer ways to respond to our big emotions and challenging thoughts. Self-Injury is often a symptom of a larger mental health concern. Together we will address the underlying condition as well as the self-injury symptoms.
Trauma
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Trauma can happen to anyone. Traumas are put into two categories of big “T” and little “t” traumas. The big “T” traumas are typically events like physical or sexual abuse, war, life threatening events, or serious injury. Little “t” traumas can be things like deaths of family or pets, a breakup, loss of a job among many other experiences.
Whether your trauma is a big “T” or a little “t”, your emotional response is valid.
Talking about trauma takes courage, trust and time. Finding a safe space to heal and begin to find a path forward is our ultimate goal. Finding a place of safety both in the sessions and outside of them is where we begin. Therapy will go at a pace that is comfortable for you.
Self Esteem
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Self Esteem ebbs and flows. Everyone has times in which they feel confident and in control and times when they feel less so. When esteem is low it can impact multiple areas of our life.
In therapy, we will work to understand the sources of low self esteem and begin to examine our beliefs about ourselves. Together we will work on recognizing that being you is enough.
Handling School
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During the school year a child spends half of their time at school.
There are a multitude of problems that can arise as your child is growing and learning in a school environment. Some of these include: failing grades, difficulty with peers, behavioral problems, difficulty staying at school, difficulty getting to school, bullying, homework, and other issues.
Together we'll explore and address your student's challenges and help them become a successful student.
Suicidal Ideation
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If you are considering taking your own life:
Suicide Awareness – Call 800-273-TALK (8255)
If you are considering harm to yourself, stop everything else you are doing. Pick up the phone and call 800.273.8255 - 800.273.TALK
This phone is answered 24/7 by people who will help you get through then next hours in a safe way and will work to get help to you immediately.
If you are not in immediate danger:
Outpatient therapy can be helpful. There are thoughts that sometimes happen of not wanting to be around anymore. You may recognize that there is pain associated with that thought. You may have no plan to act on it. These thoughts may come and go. But when these thoughts happen it is a signal that it is important to tell someone. In therapy we will work toward finding healthy way to respond to the thoughts.
Care from Being You
Being You Counseling offers care for Young Adults and Older Adults. Care is provided in a telehealth format or by phone in a one-on-one session between you and me. Sessions are scheduled at times convenient to the two of us, generally once a week.
You will need internet connection or cell phone service and a quiet and private place to talk. Whether you choose your spot at home or in a workplace setting, your space should be free from other people, television, music, video games or other distractions.
The connection platform can be launched from a laptop, computer, tablet or a smartphone. A phone session only needs a phone connection.
Let's Get Started
Intake Chat
Our introduction will take place with an intake chat. This allows me to send you some information to help assess your needs and provide you with an opportunity to get to know me a little bit.
Book Appointment
Once we have completed our intake assessment, we will book our first appointment for a full session. I will send some forms via a secure link for you to sign and to complete prior to your first appointment.
1st Session!
Getting ready for your first session will require that you find a quiet and private place to talk. Sessions are conducted via phone or telehealth.
My View
I hold a belief that we are all doing the very best we can with the skills and the knowledge that we have. I also hold a belief that sometimes we need support to step into healthier skills and gain knowledge to grow and heal.
Being human is messy, imperfection is our only option, and wow that can be hard to sit with sometimes. I named my practice Being You Counseling because despite the desire you might have to change yourself or better something about your life, you are worthy of love and belonging exactly as you are in this moment.
Being YOU is enough. Messiness and all.
Now let’s grow and heal to be the best version of you.
Contact Ailie
Ask a question or book an appointment below.
For emergencies call 911 or visit your nearest hospital.